Rooms can now require a Kanidm group (via the `groups` OIDC claim,
mapped by `oauth2 update-claim-map` server-side) - dev/ops require
`developers`, enforced at every message path (send, history, SSE).
Adds a minimal WebRTC mesh call feature scoped to the lobby room,
signaled over a separate `call.room.*` NATS subject kept out of the
chat archive: public STUN only, no TURN, no SFU - small groups on
friendly networks, by design.
