Milestone 5: metered awareness, DSCP, systemd, man pages, packaging

Metered detection polls NetworkManager's Metered property over D-Bus
(feature "metered", default on; builds without D-Bus via
no-default-features). While metered the daemon closes incoming blob
connections and defers every fetch; VARDE_FORCE_METERED=true forces the
state as a kill switch and test hook. Endpoint UDP sockets get DSCP CS1
best-effort by matching bound ports to /proc/net/udp inodes (iroh hides
its fds). systemd socket activation adopts LISTEN_FDS fd 3, readiness
is a hand-rolled sd_notify READY=1 (abstract + path sockets), and
standalone binding still works unchanged. dist/ ships hardened system
and user units (DynamicUser, ProtectSystem=strict, StateDirectory,
RestrictAddressFamilies), a commented config example, scdoc man pages
validated with scdoc, and an untested PKGBUILD skeleton.

Tests: activation-socket round trip via a real fd-3 handoff, READY=1
received on a NOTIFY_SOCKET, metered daemons neither serve nor fetch.

Dependencies: zbus (optional, feature-gated D-Bus client for the
NetworkManager metered flag).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

dist/varde.service

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+# varde system service. Pairs with varde.socket for socket activation;
+# also runs standalone (the daemon binds its own socket when not
+# activated).
+[Unit]
+Description=varde content-addressed blob mirror daemon
+Documentation=man:varde(8)
+After=network.target
+Requires=varde.socket
+
+[Service]
+Type=notify
+ExecStart=/usr/bin/varde-daemon --system
+Restart=on-failure
+
+# Hardening
+DynamicUser=yes
+StateDirectory=varde
+RuntimeDirectory=varde
+NoNewPrivileges=yes
+ProtectSystem=strict
+ProtectHome=yes
+PrivateTmp=yes
+PrivateDevices=yes
+ProtectKernelTunables=yes
+ProtectKernelModules=yes
+ProtectControlGroups=yes
+RestrictAddressFamilies=AF_UNIX AF_INET AF_INET6 AF_NETLINK
+RestrictNamespaces=yes
+RestrictRealtime=yes
+RestrictSUIDSGID=yes
+LockPersonality=yes
+MemoryDenyWriteExecute=yes
+SystemCallArchitectures=native
+SystemCallFilter=@system-service
+CapabilityBoundingSet=
+
+[Install]
+WantedBy=multi-user.target